Sunday, March 27, 2011

The Creative Style of Love

The Creative Style of Love

        Dear reader,


    In this blog, you can expect to read about finding love.  Love in the death of the main character’s older brother, and the best friend that sat by his side as he died without control of the situation.  In the book, the main character Cora learns the real personality of her deceased brother, Nate. When he was alive, they had nothing in common and he would always cause trouble at home as well as in school. They found a common thread in art and she was amazed by the beauty Nate had created from all of the destruction he had made. On the way of getting to know her brother, she finds love in the person who was sitting in the car with Nate the night of the car accident, Damian.  Cora also falls in love with all of the great times her and Nate had together as kids.  Cora also learns to love being in her own skin as she enters high school and finds who she really is.  As her family grieves, she turns to her friends for support and when her best friend finds another clique, she finds someone named Helena who has her best interest at heart.  When her family can finally get over their grief to talk to each other, love helps them handle the loss of Nate.  


Sincerely,
Ta’Ven


    The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else.”






Eulogy
Nate, my brother was a kind hearted soul stuck in troubled ways.  Nate always seemed like the bad child who was disrespectful in class, at home and everywhere in between.  I was always the silent bystander and I found out I really never knew my brother all that well.  When I got to know his partner in crime, I learned how artistic and creative he really was.  All of the destruction he made was to build something much more beautiful.  When I reflect on our childhood, I always will remember how Nate would take me to the swimming pool, the park playground, and the baseball field.  All of the time he spent with me, saving me, playing me, finding me, will never be replaced.  I have now seen all of the things that are in him in me.  I wouldn’t have gotten to know my brother like this if this tragedy wouldn’t have happened.  I am saddened, but I am truly thankful.  Thank You.


"Like branches on a tree we grow in different directions yet our roots remain as one. Each of our lives will always be a special part of the other."



Obituary

    Yesterday around 9:51 pm, the life of teenager Nathaniel Bradley was taken in a tragic car accident.  He was in his car with his best friend Damian that night.  Nathaniel was driving and was coming from his home in Lincoln Grove.  Apparently, he had no headlights on. From police reports, the family says there was a big argument before the incident and he got his keys and sped off.  There was no alcohol involved I the accident.  When interviewed, best friend, Damian, said he repeatedly told Nathaniel to pull over and put on his headlights. Nathaniel ignored Damian and continued his way down the road until he hit a tree.  The car is totaled and disfigured.  Just in that instant, a best friend, brother, son, and boyfriend were lost.  The wake and funeral will be held at 1234 Hidden Avenue.


 The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned.”


Collage



















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"A sister is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost."


Children’s Story with Illustrations









At the park, my brother and
I would always play on the
tire swing!





   






      Out in a barn, my brother
and I would play hide and
seek in the corn stalks!






















My family and I would always go
to football games together and
scream and shout with our blankets
and hot chocolate!














This is my dead brother’s car
after his car accident…














Self Reflection

    In the book, ‘A Map of the Known World’, no one knew how Nate really was.  Nate always showed the crazy, wild, and rebellious side of himself that no one ever saw his softer and more artistic side.  In the eulogy, Cora got to show everyone who Nate really was.  She was able to share all of the memories she had with him.  

I picked an obituary because it shows what exactly happend to Nate.  The obituary help to explain what happen the night Nate had his accident.  It describes the emotions and situations he dealt with at home.  It also helps the reader understand a little bit of what Damian felt and how he reacted to the situation.  

Next, I chose a children’s book with illustrations. I chose children’s book wit illustrations because it helped to match imagery with the events in the story with the relations of the main character and her deceased brother.  Children’s books are usually joyfully and happy and using a children’s book structure enabled me to have the reader look at death in a positive way.


I chose to include a collage in my project beacuse it gives life to words in the story.  My collage helped tell the story of a human life and all of the things it includes.  A human life usually includes of accidents, love, relationships with others and death and departure.  Sometimes in life, all you can do is be a bystander when events are happening. Things aren't always easy to find out of, sometime you have to play hide-and-seek to know. 



Works Cited Page


Maugham, William S. "William Somerset Maugham Quotes." Find the Famous Quotes You Need, ThinkExist.com Quotations. Web. 25 Mar. 2011. <http://thinkexist.com/quotation/the_love_that_lasts_the_longest_is_the_love_that/179819.html>.

“Sisterly Quotations | Simply Col." Simply Col | “I Am Beginning to Learn That It Is the Sweet, Simple Moments of Life Which Are the Real Ones after All.â€�. Web. 25 Mar. 2011. <http://simplycol.com/about-2/sisterly-quotes/>.


“The Hardest Thing to Do Is Watch the One You.” Love Quotes. Quotes About Love. Cute Love Quotes. Sweet Love Quotes-Top 10-Top 100 Love Quotes. 2010.Web.26 Mar. 2011. <http://www.1-love-quots.com/50102.htm>


Garretty, Marion C. “Brother and Sister Quotes I Sister Quotes, I Brother Quotes,  Family Quotes.” True Abundance And Happiness Is Attainable For You - Got Yours?
Learn How.Web.27 Mar.2011.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Responding AGAIN?!?! :)

http://socerchamp16.blogspot.com/2011/03/blog-362011.html?showComment=1299463028427#c6429701783952678264

Bllllawwggg!!!

sooo this weekend was knda on the down side for me cuzz i thot i was gonna be totally awesome and it knda wasn't :/ lol... but heyy cant do anything about that ritte noww.., but havnt been doin anything lately, juss talkin to my bestest budd Eric Bucknerr..lol hes tryna teach me karate moves i will never need that he taught himself off of crazy chinese movies : P silly goose! lol but im really starting to get into my book for English class : ) im gladd i chosse a pretty guud one cuzz usually i suck @ stuff lke that..but i need to talk about my knda suckky weeknd..sooo the girls bball team gott to the District Championshipss and we hadd to play Northland.. and we lost : ( ... it took us alot of work to gett there (even if i DID onli make 2 points in my varsity carrer- i worked my booty off for them!! lol) , but im still really proud of my team and what we have accomplished and the goals we sett... it was knda ironic for me that we lost to Northland cuzz if i wuudnt hav moved to Gahanna my freshman year, i would have gone there with all of my other oldd friends...i dnt regrett moving to Gahanna @ all and i still get alot of love from my other friends even tho some of them try to talk mess sometimes it juss their competitiveness coming out : ).. its all good tho cuzz were comin str8 back nexx year!!  ; ).. the other knda succky thing that happend was my choir concert.. we ddnt really prepare that well bcuz our student teacher taught us our frst piece and it took us FOREVER!! to learn so we ddnt havv that much time to perfect the other songs : (.. Mr. Lahman still ddnt givv us a clear report on how wee did..but i guess we'll find out Mondday! well its time for me to finish wachin Jersey Shore! : ) lol peace & love! ; )